What I learned from a 21 Day Elimination Diet

What I learned from a 21 Day Elimination Diet

For years, I’ve been hearing that an elimination diet is the only reliable way to discover intolerances.  It would be amazing if we could just KNOW if a food item isn’t well-tolerated.  I mean, there are some companies which offer food-sensitivity testing but for a steep price tag; though, they are not scientifically proven to be accurate.  As for elimination diets, there are established programs created by companies, like Clean Program or Be Well Cleanse.  After lots of research—and to accommodate my needs—I decided to conduct my own elimination diet, loosely based off of established protocols.

Let me begin by breaking down why I decided to do an elimination diet:

  • I felt weighed down, bloated, and lethargic. 
  • My appetite rotated between ravenous and nonexistent.
  • I found myself eating mindlessly or binging at night.
  • The times I would eat based on “hunger” often left me feeling sick afterwards.
  • My digestion was fickle and I was frequently constipated.
  • I was having trouble falling asleep and would struggle to get out of bed in the mornings.
  • My skin was breaking out and my face looked red with inflammation.
  • I felt insecure and uncomfortable in my own body.

When I started my 21 Day Elimination Diet, I had just experienced a painful break up and a whirlwind of stress at work.  It was (what I thought was) the end of a series of challenges and my body showed the stress.  Specifically, I gained a little bit of weight and felt like my digestive system was not functioning well.  Gut health is definitely important so I knew I needed to address this.  Now, I haven’t ever had reason to believe I am intolerant to any foods but I wanted to rule out the possibility of an intolerance.   At the very least, I hoped cleaning up my diet would help me feel back to normal.

Personally, I based my pursuit of an elimination diet off of the Clean Program and read additional materials about how to do your own clean cleanse at home.  Clean has a helpful list of foods to include here and foods to exclude here!  This post is NOT is not in any way sponsored by the program; I just liked that they had a straightforward list of foods to focus on including and excluding for the duration of the cleanse.  I stocked up on my favorite plant-based protein powders: Tone it Up and Nuzest.  Plus, I purchased digestive enzymes and oil of oregano supplements, in addition to my usual probiotic, to aid in cleansing.

Here’s what a general outline of my first week of the elimination diet looked like:

Breakfast smoothie + 1 probiotic + 1 digestive enzyme + 1 oregano oil

Snack (optional)

Lunch meal + 1 digestive enzyme + 1 oregano oil

Snack (optional)

Dinner Smoothie + 1 digestive enzyme + 1 oregano oil

The Clean Program, different than other elimination diets, encourages a breakfast and dinner smoothie so as to lighten the load on the digestive system and encourage “detoxing”.  Of course, I made all smoothies, snacks, and meals with clean-approved foods!  The program also advises to use the period of elimination as a time to identify natural and real hunger cues.  In spite of this, I found myself reaching for snacks because I have been on a 5-meals-a-day structure for a while. 

If you know me, you know I LOVE smoothies but, by the end of this first week, I was over them. 

The trouble with the smoothies was the fact that they were cold.  I am stating the obvious here but they felt really uncomfortable in me energetically (I’m pretty “vata” in Ayurvedic doshas).  As I mentioned previously, I have had digestive issues.  So, the idea of throwing cold and frosty liquids into my stomach made me feel like I was putting out my already measly digestive fire.  Also, cold food—especially at dinnertime—doesn’t give you the feeling of having eaten something substantial.  I restrained from snacking afterwards only because I knew the smoothie was meant to be the last meal of the day.

Also, it doesn’t help that I tried to make a savory green smoothie for dinner around Day 6 and it was the biggest, grossest, FAIL.  At that point, I decided I would continue the elimination diet but without doing the breakfast and dinner smoothies.  From that point on, I made some smoothies at breakfast sometimes but, for the most part, I enjoyed actual meals. 

Meanwhile…

I read some boards online where people discussed their tips for short-term elimination diets, like I was doing.  Most said the first few days were tough but, after that, it became easier.  They felt lighter and more energized. #goals  I experienced the contrary result.  Unfortunately, I still felt all of my above noted symptoms of bloat, constipation, lethargy, etc.  Basically, I was crawling by to reach Day 21.  I even received comments from others who said I looked tired and not like myself. 

Admittedly, situations at work were worsening and my emotional well-being was, simply put, sucky.  So, that could have been a factor.  Still, you would think eating good, nutritious food would have demonstrated some positive improvements in my body! 

It was only when a coworker told me I should get my blood levels checked for anemia or maybe up my B vitamins that I realized I hadn’t been taking my supplements!  I stopped any regular vitamins and supplements for the purpose of the elimination diet but maybe that wasn’t a good idea.  The next day, I began taking my b-complex again and within a day I felt some energy come back to me.  Now, that didn’t solve all of my problems, but at least now I wasn’t going to have to walk around each day feeling foggy-headed and weak. 

The re-introduction phase also made me feel better.

I was living off of green vegetable sautés, avocados, and homemade gluten-free tortillas so I was excited to add in some old favorite foods.  You can check out the excluded foods list to see what I eliminated but so far here is what I’ve introduced with no noticeable problems:

  • Peanut Butter – I like Wild Friends or Smuckers Natural Style (no added oils or preservatives)
  • Wheat – I use Alvarado Street Bakery Sprouted Whole Wheat Bread; One Degree Organics Spelt Flour (update: I’m actually gluten-sensitive, I just couldn’t detect it at this time!)
  • Oats – standard whole rolled oats
  • Tomatoes – No issues. I do like to squeeze out the seeds to reduce lectins
  • White Potatoes – I always had difficulty with blood sugar imbalance after eating these so I wasn’t expecting much.  I did, however, cut them into fries and soak them for a few hours to release some of their starch before making them in this poutine recipe. 😀 That seemed to lessen their impact on my blood sugar!  Read more about how I soak potatoes to reduce their starch here!

Food I found potentially problematic:

  • Eggs – They don’t give me any immediate digestive discomfort but I did notice my the skin on my face was a lot redder and had underlying inflammation that wasn’t evident before.  I’m going to limit eating eggs (even more than before) so I can keep an eye on the inflammation issue.
  • Cauliflower – I didn’t eliminate this food during my elimination diet but I did after the first week.  Cruciferous vegetables, while allowed, are very gassy and tough to digest.  I steamed and froze my own cauliflower for use in smoothies and, yet, I would feel extra bloated and uncomfortable after eating.  Roasted or pan-fried cauliflower did not feel much better.  I’m going to gradually work on eating cauliflower as my digestive issues improve.  I figure I will need to eat it well-cooked and in smaller amounts, too.
  • Almond butter/ Almond flour – Again, another food that wasn’t specifically excluded.  Just like cauliflower, I discovered almond products did not sit well with me.  I don’t know if I was overeating either of these but they would make me feel similar to processed food SICK.  In theory, nuts are meant to be eaten in 1oz. or 1/4 cup portions.  So, large amounts of almonds (or any nuts) in one sitting is bound to make me feel weighed down.
  • Coconut – I included coconut on the list for the sake of keeping track.  I’ve eaten coconut in all of its forms but the only one to cause me issues was coconut flour.  Very soon after eating coconut flour something, I would feel my throat tighten up as if it was hard to swallow.  This was prior to my elimination diet and persisted afterwards.  Additionally, after my diet, I would get the same throat tightening, though slightly less intense, with other coconut items like oil, butter, and especially dried shredded coconut.  I don’t notice any other negative effects so I’ll keep eating coconut to hopefully redevelop better tolerance.

So, back to my elimination diet, I think my biggest takeaways were habits more than food intolerances.

I learned that too much of anything can become a bad thing.

This was demonstrated when I was eating two smoothies a day and (my favorite) protein powder just started to feel unwelcome in my body.  I also developed a dislike for cold smoothies and moderate dislike of cold foods.  While I still do crave some cold dishes, I prefer the way warm foods feel in my stomach.  It’s also important to simply change up my food and not overdo it by eating the same thing.

I want to address the tendency of overeating.  When there is delicious food or (my kryptonite) baked goods around, then the temptation to overeat is real.  I am guilty of eating too fast and therefore reaching for more than my body can efficiently digest.  Obviously, I need to train myself to know my limits because eating half of a fresh baked banana bread loaf, or anything in excess, isn’t going to make me feel good.   

The elimination diet also made me super-sensitive to sugar.

Per the Clean guidelines, I cut out added sugar.  The only times I used a “sweetener” was in the form of dates but that wasn’t often.  As I introduced foods, post-elimination diet, I realized how deeply sugar affected me.  The smallest bit of sugar in an afternoon or evening snack ended up keeping me awake later than usual. 

The same goes for caffeine.

Now, I never drink coffee because I already know it will make me jittery as heck.  Though, I’ve previously been okay with other naturally-caffeinated products.  Green tea, for example, used to give me a steady flow of energy without a crash.  Yet, I can definitely feel the micro-crash now and I don’t like it.  Especially because the crash makes me snack-y.  I certainly don’t want to be eating just because caffeine falsely affect my blood sugar/hunger levels. 

Maybe these are feelings that everyone has with caffeine but I feel like it disrupts my rhythm.  Unfortunately, my old fave chocolate can also be problematic.  I have to be careful not to use over a tablespoon of cacao powder or cacao nibs at once.  As well, I need to limit chocolate, so as not to throw off my blood sugar from the caffeine intake. 

Habits vs. Need. 

I don’t recommend anyone go on an elimination diet just to evaluate their relationship with food but it is inevitable.  When my mind would tell me to eat, I would tune in to my body.  Frequently, I used those moments to assess whether my hunger cravings were true or just boredom–or worse, habit.  Most of the time during this cleanse, I didn’t physically need food as much as I thought I did.

My main reason for embarking on the elimination diet in the first place was to tackle my BLOAT.  Was that accomplished?  Unfortunately, no.

So, why am I still experiencing bloat?

  • My guess is: I might have continued eating a food that, unsuspectingly, is causing me digestive distress.  My suspicion tells me nuts and nut butters (because I KNOW I eat a lot of them) and perhaps temperature of food plays a role, too.
  • I may have an imbalanced gut flora (more on this in follow-up post!).  If I lack the proper “good” bacteria in my intestines, then that makes digesting anything a mission. 
  • Lastly, stress.  I don’t want to believe that this could still be playing a role because the stressors are technically over.  It was two solid months of stressors drastically building up but I am no longer exposed to them. (Admittedly, I still think of them, at times).  Still, I know stress can be the root manifestation of many evils such as the weight gain, digestive issues, and skin breakouts that I was experiencing.  Its role is not to be underestimated.

It seems that the combination of issues I’ve been experiencing is a set of problems with no easy solution.  Though, if there is anything I’ve learned from cycle-syncing, it’s that problems don’t surface out of nowhere.  If unaddressed, the symptoms build up over time.  They build and build until they finally become loud, noticeable, and demand attention.  I’m now trying to provide that attention to some deep-rooted problems.

This post was quite an essay.  Honestly, I put off writing it for so long –not just because I was slowly going through reintroduction but—because I didn’t know how to plate all of this information in a useful way.  I couldn’t say, “Hey, I eliminated a food and now I feel better!”  Still, I hope it was of some value or at least encourages you to think about the functionality of your health.  All aspects, not just food, are important and can affect you.

Right now, I don’t have any clear answers.  Though, I want to keep you all informed and involved incase you’re going through something similar.  For this next leg of my journey, I will be revisiting a holistic approach to gain control over my health.  If you feel inclined, please share any thoughts, advice, or stories you have in the comments!  I love hearing what you guys have been through and your perspectives.

Xoxo.

 

Sweet and Fluffy Smoothie Bowl

Sweet and Fluffy Smoothie Bowl

Have you ever wondered how to make your smoothies ultra thick and fluffy but just end up with a flat fruity liquid?  Stay tuned for my top fluffy smoothie tips!

As I write this, I’m currently at home, in my comfy clothes, and with a mouth full of stitches.  Okay, that sounds dramatic but, with all seriousness, I did just get my wisdom teeth removed.  I know the thought of dentists and teeth weirds some people out so go ahead and skip to the bottom if you’re just here for the recipe.  

Ever since November of last year, I knew 2018 was going to be the year I would get my wisdom teeth removed.  My dentist has been telling me they were surfacing and close to pushing on my other teeth.  So, after my last dental check-up, I just bit the bullet and made an appointment. 

I’ve never had cavities or any big problems with my teeth so I can’t say I had too many concerns going in.  Obviously the pain was concerning.  Also, the fact that I would need to take some days off of work for recuperation was concerning (since I’m currently on my first year probationary period).   Though, the real fright came the day of my wisdom teeth extraction when I got some news sprung on me.

While I was prepared to get all four of my teeth pulled out, I was not prepared for was the information my dentist gave me that day.  Apparently, my two bottom teeth were literally grazing the top of a very sensitive nerve canal in my jaw.  Basically, my dentist said, if the nerve gets damaged during the extraction, I could end up with numbness for a few weeks, months, or even a lifetime. 

Perfect timing to break this to me, doc.

The chances were super slim.  Apparently 99% people who have that occur will regain feeling within six months.  So, I mean, my wisdom teeth were still wreaking havoc in my mouth… I figured I just needed to go through with the procedure as planned.

Thankfully, I’m here three days later and I’m okay.  My cheeks are super swollen but I hardly have pain so that is good.  I was even able to eat some solid (but soft) food today!  Yay!

Let’s keep up the spirit of celebration by talking about this Sweet and Fluffy Smoothie Bowl, yeah?

Sometimes a drinkable smoothie is good.  Sometimes a thick frozen puree is calling my name.  And sometimes, I’m craving a fluffy cloud for breakfast.  Anyone else?

If you have trouble getting your smoothie fluffy, use these ingredients:

Frozen banana – a usual suspect in smoothies but undeniably the best creamy and naturally sweet addition.

Chia seeds – add a tablespoon to your smoothie liquid (milk or water) to soak before adding the rest of your ingredients.  Trust me.  The soaked chia makes ALL the difference.

Ground flaxseed – follow the same method for the chia seeds for an easy, nutritious way to add body to a smoothie.

Frozen mango – serves to add thickness and fluff, and sweetness, just like banana.

Frozen cauliflower – the trendy fruit-free smoothie thickener.  When mixed with other berries, spices, or flavored powders, it will remain unrecognizable in your smoothie.  Try my Sweet Potato Cinnamon Peach Smoothie!

Frozen zucchini – you’ve seen me use this in previous smoothies like my Green Banana Tahini Shake and Zucchini Smoothie Bowl.  I love using this light and easily digestible vegetable to give my smoothie some body.

Protein powder – it’s hard to get a fruit-only smoothie to be fluffy but add in some protein powder and suddenly it becomes a thick shake-like texture.

And for a new fluffy smoothie ingredient discovery of mine…oat milk!

Oat milk – make your own by soaking half a cup of dry rolled oats in 2-3 cups of water.  Blend and strain as you would nut milk (reserve the oat pulp for overnight oats!).  The starchiness from the oats releases into the water which helps add incredible thickness to any smoothie.

This list of ingredients is not comprehensive but it does include my go-to choices for making a delicious, thick smoothie.  Tinker around with whichever ingredients sound good to you.  Mix one or two with your favorite fruit or greens and let me know what you think!

If you want a little inspiration for how to combine some of these fluff-boosters then look no further.

sweet and fluffy smoothie bowl

The addition of Minimalist Baker’s Rawnola, bee pollen, and ground flax make this breakfast bowl a real treat.

Sweet and Fluffy Smoothie Bowl
Recipe Type: Breakfast
Cuisine: Vegan
Author: Melanie
Prep time:
Total time:
Serves: 1 bowl
I use a combination of my top fluff-boosters to make this ultra creamy, dreamy, and fluffy smoothie bowl!
Ingredients
  • 1 cup oat milk
  • ¼ cup frozen cauliflower
  • ½ cup frozen mango
  • 1 tbsp frozen banana
  • 1 scoop vanilla plant-based protein powder
  • Optional toppings: frozen blueberries, Minimalist Baker’s rawnola, bee pollen, ground flax
Instructions
  1. Add ¾ cup of the milk and frozen goods to the blender. Process until everything is nice and smooth.
  2. Add the protein powder and, if needed, the remaining milk to the blender.
  3. Let the blender run for at least a minute. The longer it blends, the more the ingredients get whipped (aka FLUFFY).
  4. Once your smoothie is sufficiently fluffed, pour it into a bowl and add whatever toppings you like. I’ve been loving rawnola and bee pollen lately but coconut or fresh fruit would also be good! Enjoy!

sweet and fluffy smoothie bowl

Thanks so much for reading!  I am living off of pureed soups and smoothies these days but you definitely don’t need to have your wisdom teeth pulled out to enjoy this baby.  If you give it a try—or if you try using any of my favorite fluff-boosters—let me know what you think!  xoxo

 

Too Good To Be True

Too Good To Be True

It’s funny to think of how nothing in our world is one set way.  I used to think challenges were a necessary part of anything I would embark on.  Yet, I also believe the total opposite.  There is something to be said for the times when things fall into place so effortlessly that you wonder how sane or safe the situation is.  I used to wonder if the latter case meant the universe is playing a trick on me.

I am not one for games and I don’t think the universe is either.  It is my belief that we are led to where we need to be as long as we keep our eyes open.  The signs are here amongst us but we need to know what to look for.  Signals can be confusing, especially when our lives are oftentimes so busy, but that is why I find it essential to recognize how I feel. 

I’m not frequently introspective but simply taking note of how things make me feel is a game-changer.  It sounds obvious, like, of course I know how things make me feel.  Though, I’m talking about on that deeper level of recognizing when a person, topic, or situation affects you. 

People in your life that support and inspire you are worthwhile and necessary.  People that don’t make you feel good don’t have to be in your life—adjust accordingly.  Ideas that make you uncomfortable may be sore spots to work out.  When the thought of something fills you with emotion, consider how that serves you.  Life, months, weeks, and days are filled with situations.  Short and longer term situations are experiences if we can only see the avenues for expansion. 

Look back on what you were doing a year ago.  Were you living somewhere else?  Did you change jobs or pick up different hobbies?  Maybe you’ve learned how much you can take, emotionally, and where your limits are

I feel that, once you take the time to learn about yourself in that way, life just begins to flow.  My life isn’t perfect but it is flowing right now.  I’m not even close to where I am meant to be and there is still so much more I hope/plan to do but I’m thankful that I can see that. 

This is a bit of a different and, perhaps, odd post but I hope sharing my thoughts can resonate with you if you wonder about how to tap into those universal signs.  Check-in with yourself OFTEN and A LOT and there is no limit to the possibilities that may unfold.

Love and light to you all♥ 

Favorites of the Season: What I’m Loving Lately

Favorites of the Season: What I’m Loving Lately

Hello beautiful souls!  I’ve missed you!  The whole two jobs, no spare time thing has really put a damper on social time.  In case you didn’t know, I got hired for a seasonal job back in October and, not long after, was offered a full time job elsewhere.  I’ve been juggling the two at the sacrifice of social media, my loving blog, and communication with anyone who isn’t a coworker or family living in my house.  As the month soon comes to a close, I foresee some more time for me to get back to all of that! 

For now, I’ve got a list of things I’ve loved over the past few months.  My last monthly favorites post was back in September and much has happened since then! I can’t commit to a monthly favorites post at this time but I’ve got a huge list of goodies to keep you occupied.  Be sure to tell me what you’re loving in the comments down below or on Instagram!

Visual Favorites

Hallmark Channel

As far as TV goes, Hallmark Channel is where I’m at! Hallmark Channel is putting out 20 new movies this holiday season.  While it is almost over, you can find a holiday movie airing at any hour of the day on the channel—along with its partner channel Hallmark Movies and Mysteries.  The cozy, sweet, and romantic movies are all I need to make my December feel like Christmastime.  A few film favorites are: Marry Me at Christmas, Miss Christmas, and Christmas in Angel Falls.

73 Questions with ______

Recently, I went on a video binge over on the Vogue YouTube channel.  They have a series called 73 Questions with different celebrities.  It is such a fun, laid-back way of asking questions that tell you a lot of interesting things about the person in a short amount of time. See my woman crush Emma Stone’s 73 Questions video here!

Lifestyle Favorites

Choice Teas Reishi Detox

I was on a big lemon/ apple cider vinegar warm water kick and now tea is my morning cup of choice. This one legit smells like hot chocolate but the depth of flavor is unlike any other tea I’ve tried.  Once before, I had a plain mushroom tea that tasted like bitter broth but I guarantee Reishi Detox is yummy even for mushroom haters.

B-Complex Vitamin

As you may have heard, supplements can’t fix a bad diet.  Supplements are only meant to assist in health not be the sole solution.  I eat pretty healthy (hello, have you seen my Instagram photos?) but, with the addition of B vitamins, I have seen noticeable effects.  I’ve tried taking a B12 vitamin but I really find that the B complex is the best.  If you take too much of one, you might be lacking in the others so a complex ensures you’re getting all the vitamins you need.  I was taking Nature Made B Complex plus a B6 vitamin until I found this Solgar brand at Vitamin Shoppe.  Both work but the variety of B vitamin levels in the Solgar one allow me to meet my needs in one bottle!

Protes Chips

I’m making efforts to not be a carb monster so protein-filled snacks are a great addition to my meals!  So, I’m definitely not a chips person or a crunchy food person usually but these are different.  The Protes chips are light and crispy and quite flavorful! The bags are small but satisfying—and the savory and dessert flavors are both delicious!

protes protein chips

Recipes I’m Loving

Garlic Sweet Potato Fries

Behold: the yummiest recipe for CRISPY Sweet Potato Fries at home!  Dare I say they’re better than the fried kind at restaurants :p 

Black Bean Salad with Roasted Sweet Potatoes

I made this dish for a staff after-hours party and I received multiple complements!  The zesty, tex-mex dish is perfect as a standalone meal or side dish! I’ve got some leftovers in my fridge ready to be made into tacos 😉

Coconut Cacao Tahini Snack Bites

I love Minimalist Baker’s take on the “fat ball”.  It combines my precious tahini and delicious coconut butter for a melt-away, delicious, and satiating snack.  Try them and swoon!

Paleo Double Chocolate Banana Bread

This recipe uses A LOT of ingredients so it took me a while to get everything I needed to make it.  Let me tell ya, it’s worth it!  This banana bread tastes like freaking rich, dark chocolate cake without the sugar!  It’s naturally sweetened from banana and doesn’t leave me feeling weighed down like if I ate something decadent.  It is also delicious with nut butter or decked out as a breakfast meal.

 favorite chocolate banana bread

 

Fit Favorites

I admit I’ve sidetracked from my workouts lately.  I felt like the pressure to fit in a workout was getting to be too much.  Though, exercise makes me feel good so I’ve still got some options!  Lauren Gleisberg’s Fitmas is crazy good for strength training!  I love the targeted body part workouts that are usually less than 30 minutes to complete. 

The stress at work + the natural stress from workouts had me feeling like I had no moments of calm.  So, a yoga flow to start my day sets me up for success!  I recently completed Yoga Revolution for the second time and know the upcoming January challenge will be just as amazing!

Audible Favorites

Eisley’s newest album I’m Only Dreaming

The angelic vocal stylings of Sherri Dupree make for a record of wistful, melancholic, dream pop.  The band has come a long way since older albums Room Noises and Combinations but maintain the gorgeous ambient tunes that make them unique.  Listen to Sparking down below or check out their Christmas single (YAS!) Star on the Tree.

One Part Plant Podcast

I think I’ve mentioned this podcast in a previous favorites video but this latest season of episodes is crazy great.  Jessica Murnane really put together a great lineup of guests. If you’d like a recommendation, check out episode 89 with Celeste Headlee!

Real Talk About Life Lately

Honestly, guys, I haven’t felt this level of stress in a while.  So much so that my period came a week late this last cycle!  Also, for me, the first place stress hits me is my face.  My skin is freaking out and breaking out.  The winter has also been killing my hands which are competing with the scratchiness of sandpaper.  If you’ve got any recommendations for natural or nontoxic lotions, please share.  I know my skin will get better if I can just chill out.  Easier said than done but I’m trying to find my groove!

The center where I work full-time always keeps me busy.  Though, what makes it really enjoyable is the people I work with.  I started out being trained by a girl who was leaving (and I was replacing) and we became instant friends!  Funny how that happened.  I feel so fortunate to have met her because she is such a rare, sweet person!

As well, I’ve become friendly with a few others in the office but there is this one particular guy I work with who is so cool.  With my hormonal imbalance issues, I almost thought I lost the ability to actually like someone else the way I like him.  He knows a lot around the office and is beyond helpful with showing me reports, how to fix the copy machine, and more.  At a recent staff party, (where I made the above mentioned sweet potato dish) him and I chatted nonstop!  🙂

For the first time in a long time, I’m just excited about this time of year and where things may be headed.  I’m sending love and warm wishes to you all ♥

Storytime: How I Lost My Period and Got it Back + My 3 Tips!

Storytime: How I Lost My Period and Got it Back + My 3 Tips!

I used to be the girl with the perfect period. In my school years, my friends would talk about missing periods, backaches, cramps, acne, and other uncomfortable period symptoms. My period would come and go in a few short days but I never had problems. Until a few years ago, when I lost my period.

When that happened, I read anything I could find online from WebMD, to small blogs, and even random online forums to just get as much information as I could about why this was happening to me. Admittedly, I know what works for one person doesn’t necessarily work for everyone else. The advice I found online was just to eat more or cut out exercise completely but neither of those felt right to me. For nearly two years, I lived without my natural period but I finally found a method that works. My hope is to share my experiences and possibly be a resource to someone else who is struggling with the same problem.

Melanie Tries to Get Fit

First, I’m going to take us back to summer 2015 when I was bright-eyed college student looking for a distraction. I was taking an online class and wanted an activity to break up all of the sitting-at-my-computer-work. Throughout my life, I was never into exercise but, now, I thought it would help me channel my pent up energy and get fit at the same time. I found Tone it Up on YouTube and spent any time I wasn’t working on schoolwork getting sweaty 😉

In fact, I started spending an obscene amount of time working out. I would exercise first thing in the morning on an empty stomach. Each day, I would kill 3-4 Tone it Up workout videos like: HIIT, a total body workout, arms, and an ab video. I felt the exercise high for the first time in my life and overdid it big time. I was working out at a high intensity (especially for someone who used to be a couch potato) and consistently did this each day for two months.

Lettuce Eat Low Calorie

Here is the cherry on top: you know how I said I knew nothing about exercise? I also knew zilch about nutrition. Basically, I was aware of calories and I knew that people who wanted to lose weight needed to eat less calories. So, I stayed away from any food with fat and calorie-dense carbs. I used an app called MyFitnessPal on and off to track my calorie intake. It served me well and my proudest days (at the time) were ones where I had calories remaining so therefore I was in a deficit. At the end of a day, on MyFitnessPal, the words “If every day were like today you’d weigh…” came onto the screen and I would either jump for joy or punish myself if I wasn’t happy with the number.

So, to put it plainly, I exercised and starved myself into losing my period.

My disordered thoughts around eating were long-standing ones (a story for another time) but now I was exercising, too. I needed to eat way more than I was allowing myself and that took a toll. Finally, after going the summer without my period, I went to see my general practitioner in fall of 2015. She said I was just too thin and needed to eat more. My GP assured me exercise was not the problem and I just needed some fat on me to kick my body back into period mode. In the meantime, she referred me to a gynecologist who then had my hormone levels tested.

It turns out, I was low in progesterone so she gave me a prescription for progesterone contraceptive pills. I held the prescription in hand and remember asking the gynecologist if there could be any other reason as to my mysterious period absence. You know, if there was a reason, then I could try to fix it. Instead she told me I could just try eating more. In addition, the pill would help my hormone levels balance out and, in a year, we could see if my body was ready to produce a period naturally. I stayed on those pills for almost two months before I switched to an estrogen + progesterone pill. Both pills made me feel emotionally unstable but the latter ones were manageable. That is what I took for the entire year of 2016.

Although my body had a rocky adjustment, my hormones eventually evened out.  Well, evened out enough so that I didn’t feel like an emotional mess. I took the bleeding week each month as a sign that my body was having a period and all was good. Deep down, I knew I needed to make some minor changes but the contraceptive pill was enough to allow me to carry on with my fitness routine. I followed the Tone it Up workout schedules which involved lots of cardio, HIIT, and strength training most days out of the week.

While the cardio high kept me thriving, I made an effort to fuel myself with larger meals, too.  I ate a bit more but filled up my meals with lots of low-calorie fruit and splurged on desserts regularly . Looking back on it all, I thought I knew what I was doing. I was so dedicated to my workouts that I could not go a day without exercising. I was burning calories like crazy but feeding myself mostly sugar in return. Realistically, my body was exhausted and wanted a break but my mind was telling me to push forward.

So, around the month of October 2016, I dabbled in lighter workouts. I found yoga through Boho Beautiful on YouTube. Her yoga workouts were challenging but satisfying for days that I didn’t want to do a crazy hard workout. Then, I learned about Yoga with Adriene and her 30 Days of Yoga Challenge. I still did my regular Tone it Up workouts but added on a yoga video. Though, I’d look forward to the moments I’d get to do the lighter, gentler, yet invigorating yoga workouts. I started to think maybe this was what my body needed.

Come January 2017, Yoga with Adriene was doing a Yoga Revolution 31 Day challenge and I decided to quit all my other workouts to just focus on this. I strictly allowed myself one yoga video and then carried on with my day. It also seemed like the perfect time to stop taking the pill. The changes in my fitness routine encouraged me to tune into my body’s signals and something told me I would feel better without the pill.

Well, I definitely did not feel better off the pill. Without the fake hormones to assist me, I could feel my energy and emotions were all over the place. Still, I persisted.

On Instagram, I sought out others who had experienced the same and finally learned about a book called Woman Code through Lee From America. I finally checked it out for myself at the start of summer 2017. If you haven’t heard of the book, it is an incredible guide to improve and balance a woman’s hormones. The doctors I previously saw would tell me to eat more but not what to eat or when.  Or what life factors could be affecting me.  Unlike WomanCode author Alisa Vitti, they didn’t have a holistic understanding of my issues.  They were not something I could simply put a band-aid on.

I am now proud to say that after following the recommendations in the book, AKA cycle-syncing, I was able to bring my period back. 🙌

my period story

Along the way, I’ve picked up a few specific tips that worked for me:

Establish a routine

A few set patterns can really help bring balance to our bodies. Our bodies function optimally when we have a consistent schedule for our basic needs. When our bodies have reliable sleep and wake times, meal times, and even an evening relaxation time to wind down, they will know how to proceed through the day. If we are constantly skipping meals, staying up late, napping through the day, then our internal clock is thrown off.

Reduce stress

Emotional and physical stressors take a toll on our bodies. I wasn’t giving myself proper recovery time between exercise and different life factors weren’t helping. One way I alleviated stress was by adding a peaceful morning ritual of journaling and yoga each morning. I feel so much less tense and more emotionally stable when I can start my day calmly and gently.

Eat more fats instead of sugar

Fats are what help keep our blood sugar and energy levels stable. Sugar causes disruptions in that stability which then throws off our endocrine system functioning. Personally, I love sweets. I was the girl who would eat 4-5 servings of fruit a day not long ago. Fruit it not the enemy but sugar can be. I’ve since trained my taste buds to crave the richness of fats which allows me to comfortably intake less sugar. You can read more about how to begin in my post on How to Reduce Sugar In Your Life.

For women, our periods are just one sign that our bodies are functioning as they should be. Inconsistent periods can also be a sign of a deeper hormonal issue that can have a number of other repercussions. As you may have gathered from the tips, I believe our bodies are sensitive to even the smallest disruptions. If we lack a routine, are filled with stress, and further throw off our energy levels with constant sugar in food, it is no wonder a period may skip or be out of the picture for months.

Over the past few years, I tried to ignore my period problem and that didn’t benefit me. I attempted to eat more food and workout less but that wasn’t the magic ticket either. The tips I shared are probably the biggest takeaways I’ve noticed in myself. Still, I can’t recommend checking out WomanCode enough if you haven’t yet. I’ve also got a series here on my blog to journal my cycle-syncing observations when I started.

At this point, I’ve happily enjoyed a period the past two months. My monthly cycle lasts a bit longer than it should but I feel good about what I’m doing. I really believe in my tips and the WomanCode protocol to regulate my period (and hormones in consequence!). Please, feel free to reach out if you want to chat more about this. I’d love to be a resource to others who currently face these same issues.

my period story

As a disclaimer, this post is my period story.  It is not intended to diagnose or treat anyone else’s individual conditions. I’m not a medical professional and am just sharing tips that work for me.